Saturday, August 27, 2011

Women in their thirties

So, basically, for a man, dating in your thirties is about the worst possible thing ever. Nearly every woman, no disrespect intended, is looking for a step up in the world. They are looking for security (someone to take care of them), comfort (someone to take care of them), and romance (someone to romance them, then take care of them)...

As a newly single male in his thirties... it is absolutely disgusting and frustrating to meet single women around the same age. They're either single and looking for the above mentioned, or they're divorced and have kids and baggage. What's a single dude to do?

I have to say though, I never laughed as much when I was dating in my twenties. Now, it seems like pretty much every time I meet a single thirty-something woman it's a laughable affair. It's either all about sex or it's all about marriage and kids. There is absolutely NO middle ground.

And the saddest part of all is how the women UNIVERSALLY try to use sex as a manipulative device. If and when they decide you are a worthwhile prospect, it is inevitable. In our culture, women are basically raised to see their sex as their only 'value'. After consciously deciding to be away from sex for a while it is absolutely hilarious to see a woman try and use her 'wiles' to seduce a specific reaction out of you.

I'm not sure what is worse, trying to date in your thirties or being forced to see our culture displayed in such a blatant fashion. Seriously, it's depressing on both fronts. I'm starting to wonder if I shouldn't just wait until my forties, when everybody is out of their shitty marriages and ready to look at a realistic version of their future rather than their idealized version of what they want. A woman's version of success should not have anything to do with 'who' they marry, or the lifestyle and success they marry into.

I guess we'll just see how it goes, it's certainly not looking very good so far...

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